Matchmaking Intake/ Meet with Ali

Please do not pay for an intake until it’s been scheduled.

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Intake Payment Form:

In order to make a payment, you must fill out this form. At the end you will be provided a link to make your payment.

Name

Date of Birth

I agree to the Terms and Conditions: https://withyoumatchmaking.com/dating-community-guidelines/

Please include the name of your high school and graduation date or a link to your current social media account. Why am I asking for this? My payment processor, Stripe, requires I include additional age verification for those on my matchmaking list.

Click here to pay for your intake (sliding scale $54-$144)

New Intakes Paused through August 2026

All new intakes are paused until August 2026, while I am on parental leave. The only exception is if you already have an intake scheduled, in which case there is no change being made to your intake.

If you’d like to join the matchmaking list down the line, please sign up for the intake waitlist here. I will send an email to the whole waitlist every few months (once I return from parental leave) with upcoming intake slots to sign up for. There will be a limited number of intakes moving forward, as I need to primarily focus on the current people on my list.

If you are referred by someone I know personally and are not scheduling an intake, you can join my list without an intake (once I return from parental leave) by sending me an email at WithYouMatchmaking(at)gmail(dot)com.

Intake Details

This meeting/video call usually lasts between 30 – 45 minutes and involves me sharing more about my matchmaking process, with time for you to ask questions. I will then ask you questions about yourself, your interests, and what you’re looking for. This conversation is informal and I allow it to move in whatever directions come up in the conversation, but I also come prepared with lots of questions to guide us.

A meeting/video call with me does not guarantee I will be able to make a match for you, but provides me with a much better understanding of you in the context of dating and in terms of what you are looking for. The intake is $54-$144 on a sliding scale – whatever you are comfortable with – and if this range is not possible for you I can absolutely be flexible, I want everyone to have access to this call regardless of class background/income. My intention around a sliding scale fee is so I can have more emotional & literal capacity to do this work while keeping the offerings financially accessible.

My list is currently mostly people in their 20s and 30s, though I am hoping to grow my list to include more age ranges over time.

Cancellations

If you need to cancel your intake, please let me know with at least three days before the intake (so I can offer your slot to someone else). And if you let me know within 24 hours of the intake, please consider still paying for your intake, as I likely won’t be able to offer the intake slot to someone else.

15 Min. Check-in Calls

If you are already on my list and I have sent you at least 2 match ideas, you can pay for a 15 minute check-in call with me, to provide feedback on the match ideas, matches so far, or any updates to what you’re looking for that you’d like to provide verbally. You can always email me with updates at no cost.

The cost of this 15 minute check in call is a sliding scale $36-$54, and you can pay at the link at the top of this page. If you’d like to schedule a check-in call, email me at WithYouMatchmaking(at)gmail.com, and I will let you know if I have check in call availability.

Refund Policy

If you would like to request a refund for any reason, please email me at WithYouMatchmaking(at)gmail(dot)com, and I will get back to you as soon as I see your email. Thank you!