Other Matchmakers / Lists
- Boston Matchmaker (25-60): https://www.connectionclubmatchmaking.com/
- Boston Matchmaker & Dating Events (mostly 25-35): https://minglemayhem.com/ (matchmaking is full as of 9/30/25)
- DC Matchmaker: https://www.luvwithlev.com/ (Jewish matchmaking)
- Philadelphia: Danielle Selber, Tribe12 matchmaking (Jewish matchmaking)
- Michal Matches: https://michalmatches.com/
- Chicago Matchmaking Form
- NYC Matchmaking Form
- Three Day Rule – free to add your private profile to their database, very expensive to pay for their services, (they work in cities all over the country)
Coaching, Spiritual Direction, & Courses
- Highly recommended by me: Dating Coach: Kelly Baker, fill out the contact form at the bottom of Kelly’s site to connect.
- Queer Dating Coach
- Aleeza Ben Shalom, Jewish Dating Coach
- Nicholas Collura, Spiritual Direction & Enneagram Coaching
Finding a Therapist
- Psychology Today: Find a Therapist
- Sex Therapy & Finding a Sex Therapist: South Shore Sexual Health Center
Consent
- Learning Good Consent, edited by Cindy Crabb
- A Quick & Easy Guide to Consent by Isabella Rotman
- Curriculum for a Feminist Men’s Group, pulled together by Matt Goldfield & Jonah S. Boyarin, jonahandmatt@googlegroups.com
- Resources for Cis Men on Sexual Assault and Toxic Masculinity
Mediation
- DNG Mediation, contact Daniele for conflict coaching/ mediation/ harm interventions
Local Photographers (for updated headshots for your bio and/or dating profile)
- http://www.photosbymaddie.com, password: naturallight
- Details: 30 min of shooting, one location near the Acton, MA area (multiple shirts allowed!). 20-30 edited photos returned.
- Cost = $300
- https://mirawhiting.com/branding/#details
Interrogating Your Biases
- Transphobia
- Ableism
- An anti-ableist guide to dating, by Penny Bathchelor
- Mixed Messages: Ableism in Dating, Canadian Women’s Foundation
- Racism
- Are your dating preferences racist? BY MELISSA PANDIKA
- Does Race Affect Your Dating Life? | Decoded | MTV News
- Are Racial Preferences in Dating Morally Defensible? Mohammad Harith Aslam Khawaja, Amherst College (While I don’t agree with everything in this article, I think it raises helpful questions and uses helpful frameworks)
- Fatphobia
- The F Word: Fatphobia in the Food Industry
- Fat Activism Resources compiled by Kat Macías
I am still doing research to find articles on biphobia, homophobia, antisemitism, and misogyny in dating. If you have articles/podcasts/videos, etc. on these topics in particular, please feel free to send them to me.
Have ideas to add to this list or feedback on any of these resources? Please email me at WithYouMatchmaking (at) gmail.com.
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